Delaying gratification has never been an issue for either of us. But, our current “plan” is self-imposed and somewhat arbitrary, so we are struggling. Technically, we could be done working at the end of the week and we would make it. I know this. Mr. PFL knows this. We realize that we have more money than we might be able to spend in our lifetime. We don’t need stuff, but crave experiences. But if we did just call it quits, how much would we restrict ourselves in the future? Would that cause more stress than it alleviates? Will I be more comfortable taking this risk at this time next year? How much will an extra year of working really change our position?

My head tells me that waiting is the right thing to do. My heart aches to move on. My gut knows that time=money and when we have more time on our hands, we won’t want to be restricted by a lack of money.

My immediate short-term goal is to compile a list of everything that needs to be done in order for us to live paycheck-free. The list will need to include, at a minimum, selling or closing my law practice, moving, health insurance, possibly power of attorney/estate planning, statutory agent for our LLCs, property management, a plan for our cat, a plan for our cars, and probably selling our house. It is like a graduation checklist; we just need to decide on our commencement date.

I’m about to get started on this year’s tax adventure. I sometimes long for the days I could fill out the 1040-EZ and be done. Now, with three businesses, an additional rental property, and various other taxable transactions, we usually end up with about a 20 page federal return, not including the partnership return for our real estate LLC. Thankfully, I also use personal financial management software, so I keep track of income and expenses throughout the year which helps tremendously at tax time. Here’s hoping we don’t end up with a huge bill!

I, through our real estate LLC, made an offer on a single-family home about five miles from where we currently live, in the same city. It all started when I was getting my hair done last Tuesday. My stylist and his partner purchased a duplex back in December and it is just a couple of blocks from this new potential property. When I’m in the salon, we love talking about real estate and small-business ownership. I’m so proud of my stylist for purchasing a duplex for his first property. We’ve discussed, at length, the benefits of owning and renting real estate. So, last week, he was telling me about this great little house that is for sale in his new neighborhood. We looked it up online. I sent an email request to the seller’s agent (I have two real estate agents that I use, but thought I’d try no agent this time). I met the seller’s agent at the property on Thursday afternoon. Mr. PFL and I drove by on Saturday evening so he could get a feel for the neighborhood and location. And, today, I emailed a cash offer of $60,000 on a list price of $110,000. We’ll see what they say.

Now, this offer really isn’t as ridiculous as it might seem at first. The home was built in 1925 and updated sometime in the 1970’s or 1980’s and never again. The electric was probably replaced about the same time. The furnace and air conditioner are newer. The outside looks great, with siding and a newer roof. But, there is wood paneling in most of the rooms. Light blue laminate counter tops. A brick surround, and carpet, in the upstairs bathroom. Basically, every single room needs work and to be updated. The $110,000 list price is totally fair, and probably under market value, if the house had been updated in the last ten years. It might even fetch $125,000 or so. But there is no way it is worth $110,000 in the current condition. It is being marketed as move-in ready, but I wouldn’t even want to advertise for renters in the current state. The house is part of a probate estate, too. Thus, my offer of $60,000.

If we get this house for $60,000, we could spend the next few months fixing it up. I think we are both ready for another renovation project and manual labor can be good for the soul. We can utilize all of our skills, and learn some new ones, like refinishing the wood floors. We could then either sell it, rent it out, or rent it to ourselves. If we decide to live there, we will need to do some serious downsizing, which we want to do anyway. We would also be in a better position to get a roommate in this smaller house than our current one as the main floor has a private bedroom/bath and the second floor has two bedrooms and one bath. We wouldn’t even be on the same floor as our roommate. We’d need to add a bathroom to our current home to have that flexibility. We would also feel better about selling our current home, I think, because we would still have a home, with plenty of storage, and in a neat part of town.

And, this week, at least, Mr. PFL and I are convinced that we can downsize, sell our current house, gets some cash, and then move to Hawaii. So, I’m keeping my fingers crossed that they will accept or make a counter-offer that we can entertain.

UPDATE as of 4:25 p.m.: The lowest price the seller will accept is $100,000, so no deal for now. I’ll keep an eye on it; she might change her mind in a few months.

UPDATE on 3/18/2915: The listing price was reduced to $105,000 yesterday.

Of course I would get summoned for jury duty during the last year I’m planning to be a permanent resident here in Ohio. I received the initial summons last week and immediately wrote a letter attempting to be excluded from service as I am a sole proprietor (and that is one of the valid reasons for being excused). Unfortunately, the jury commissioner did not agree with me, but did reschedule me for the week of June 29th. That’s only a 4-day week due to Independence Day Observed on Friday. I only need to report for one week, or through one trial, if selected. I guess that’s not so bad. I just can’t schedule anything that week during the day because I won’t know if and when I’ll be released. I will be paid $20 per day of service…

While the monetary impact is troubling, I’m more concerned that I’ll actually be selected as a juror. Trials, for me, are boring. Being a juror is an awesome responsibility; I don’t want to shortchange anyone because I’m restless. I’ve represented clients at many trials (always bench trials, never with a jury), but the process is basically the same. Each side needs to present evidence. It can take forever. Multiple witnesses tend to testify to the same thing. My favorite objection is: relevance? Witnesses, due to attorney questions, tend to go off on tangents that have no bearing on the case. Which makes the trial longer. And more boring. And, to top it all off, there is NO gavel banging, unlike every single court show on television.

Being forced to take four days off might actually be a great time to study for the Hawaii Bar Exam. I need to decide, soon, if I should take it this Summer. The application is due by April 1.

I’m over this weather. Done. Just done. The freeze/thaw cycles froze (and then thawed) our downspouts and Mr. PFL and I got creative trying to keep the basement from flooding. A tarp, a plastic lid and a mixing bowl are the main ingredients of our temporary fixes.

As part of that adventure, I wore my Ugg snow boots that I bought on sale last spring. Even after standing in water almost up to my ankle, my feet stayed dry. I was very impressed. While my first choice is for the weather to be so nice I don’t need to wear boots, I’m really glad I have these in my closet.

Mr. PFL has gotten me into listening to podcasts. I listen to talk radio a lot when I drive during the day, so I hear some of the podcast stories that way, but I only recently started downloading and listening to podcasts when I walk. Yesterday, I listened to the best one yet. It was a TED Radio Hour podcast on Success. I appreciated that so many ideas and theories about success were verbalized and explored. It reminded me that I am in control of my success.

As a testament to my success, I finished my TEFL course today and have my certificate.

Finally, I have at least three more showings lined up for the two vacant units. I hope it doesn’t start snowing until after I get home tonight. I’m not counting on it. Stupid snow.

I’d like to wish Mr. PFL a very happy birthday! I hope and wish that it is the last one he has to suffer through with a full-time job. As we continue discussing and planning, I feel more and more confident that, by this time next year, we will be ready to remove the golden handcuffs and live a good life without the need for full-time employment. We’ve both begun to realize that the longer we work, the more money we will have saved, and then, technically, the more we would be able to do in the future (really ground-breaking stuff, I know). But, we also wonder: when is enough, enough? We should have monthly income that covers our expenses; we can always try to get jobs if we need them; we could start a new business; and, we have over $1 million dollars! Why torture ourselves more? Why?

Mr. PFL and I don’t really do formal gift-giving for our birthdays or Christmas anymore; I looked up duplexes that we could buy for cash with the plan to downsize out of our current house. If the weather holds up, there is one I’m planning to look at. I hope Mr. PFL likes my gift of working towards freedom from employment. 😉